Since we're on the subject of the dark ones,creating Loosh and energy vampires,we'll do a review of what the power over others system is.For starters,the power over others system is the opposite of the power over self,or self mastery system,in which the authentic,self empowered person retains control over all decisions pertaining to self in their life and allows others to do the same without undue interference.Any interference in others'lives is often carried out because of fear,by the way and the biggest fear is loss of control.
既然我们在讨论黑暗者，创造Loosh和能量吸血鬼，我们将回顾一下什么是超越他人的力量系统。首先，对他人的权力系统与对自我的权力系统或自我掌握系统是对立的，在这个系统中，真实的、自我授权的人保留对生活中与自己有关的所有决定的控制，并允许他人在不受到不当干涉的情况下也这样做。任何对他人生活的干涉通常都是因为恐惧，顺便说一下，最大的恐惧是失去控制。
I was saying in the last video,Loosh 4,that it's important that the lightworker stay the course and maintain control of their path in life for the sake of completing their life's work,using of course the internalized system of checks and balances that comes from having contact with one's guides and higher self.Until you do have conscious contact,you are at risk of allowing your path in life to be dominated by others'agendas,rules and plans for you,subject to falling victim to ego games and/or indulging in the same yourself.This is because people are raised to have an externalized locus of control instead of an internalized one which means that you learn to allow others to control you rather than learning to master yourself.
我在最后一个视频中说到，Loosh 4，光之工作者为了完成他们的生活工作，坚持走自己的路线并保持对他们生活道路的控制是很重要的，当然要使用内化的制衡系统，这种制衡系统来自于与指导者和更高的自我的接触。除非你有意识的接触，否则你就有可能让你的人生道路被他人的议程、规则和计划所支配，成为自我游戏的受害者，或者沉迷于自我游戏。这是因为人们从小被教导要有一个外化的控制点，而不是一个内化的，这意味着你要学会让别人控制你，而不是学会掌握自己。
The Power Over Others system is a false system where one person appears to have power by either stealing it or denying others their power.Compliance in this system indicates an automatic disregard for universal law.This is the Draconian system currently in place on earth.When GESARA law comes in,earthlings will find themselves in a system that automatically demands more transparency of intent and will move away from this low dimensional system.
控制他人的权力系统是一个错误的系统，在这个系统中，一个人通过窃取他人的权力或者剥夺他人的权力来获得权力。这种制度的顺从表明了对普遍规律的自动漠视。这就是目前地球上存在的严酷制度。当 GESARA 法则出现时，地球人将发现自己处于一个系统中，这个系统自动要求更多的意图透明度，并将远离这个低维度系统。
Here are some examples of the power over others system:
这里有一些例子说明这个系统对其他系统的影响:
Two candidates are vying for the role of president.One candidate manipulates the vote by adding physical and non-physical votes to their tally.The one candidate unduly dominates the vote by rigging it in his favour.This is power over others and an example of triangulation,where the supposed winner is the perpetrator,the loser the victim and the rescuers are those who voted for the supposed loser.Yes,you're put in the position of rescuer now.Sorry to tell you.The double-party electoral system is an example of triangulation,always.By the way,when Mr T shows back up on the scene,and Mr B is taken away in handcuffs,you'll be the rescued victim then and Mr T will be the rescuer.
两位候选人正在竞争总统的职位。一个候选人通过在他们的计票中加入物理和非物理选票来操纵选票。有一位候选人操纵选票使其对自己有利，从而不适当地支配了选票。这是一种凌驾于他人之上的力量，是一个三角测量的例子，假定的赢家是犯罪者，失败者是受害者，救援者是那些投票给假定的失败者的人。是的，你现在被安排到了救援者的位置。很抱歉告诉你。双党选举制度就是三角关系的一个例子。顺便说一句，当 t 先生再次出现在现场，b 先生戴着手铐被带走时，你将成为获救的受害者，t 先生将成为拯救者。
Another example is one where a person is subjected to the will of a third party via a messenger,who declares that the person tow the line otherwise be rejected by the third party.This transaction is actually between the person and the third party,with the third party exerting dominance out of a supposed superior position.The way to deal with this is to deflate the third party's dominant position by stating that you're willing to risk the loss gained via the transaction.This is not a counter-manipulation if you actually intend it and aren't bluffing.It's best to walk away.This is a situation I'm in right now.In this example,the third party is the perpetrator,the potential victim is me,and the rescuer is the messenger.I refuse to triangulate.There are no winning positions on this triangle.
另一个例子是，一个人通过一个信使服从第三方的意愿，该信使宣布该人拖线，否则将被第三方拒绝。这种交易实际上是人与第三者之间的交易，第三者以假定的优势地位行使支配权。处理这个问题的方法是通过声明你愿意承担通过交易获得的损失来削弱第三方的主导地位。如果你真的有意而且不是虚张声势，这就不是反操纵。最好是离开。这就是我现在的处境。在这个例子中，第三方是犯罪者，潜在的受害者是我，救援者是信使。我拒绝三角定位。在这个三角形上没有获胜的位置。
Again,like I said in a video last week,I'm so sick and tired of dealing with unconscious people,people who purport to practise spiritual ways of life yet resort to unconscious manipulation of others'free will.
正如我在上周的一个视频中所说的，我再次厌倦了与无意识的人打交道，这些人声称实践精神生活方式，却诉诸于对他人自由意志的无意识操纵。
In this situation,the third party is the one who should decide to deal with me or not,but to stop telling me to change in order to gain their approval.Nobody has any right to tell others to change.So,I have bowed out instead.It's perfectly okay for the parties to agree to a compromise.For example ASKING me to change rather than THREATENING to withdraw if I don't would be preferable.But it's too late now.You showed your hand and I don't like your cards.
在这种情况下，第三方应该决定是否与我打交道，而不是告诉我为了获得他们的认可而改变。任何人都没有权利要求别人改变。所以，我选择了退出。双方达成妥协是完全可以的。例如，如果我不改变，请求我改变，而不是威胁我说如果我不改变，我就会退出，这样做会更好。但现在已经太晚了。你摊牌了，我不喜欢你的牌。
But the power monger doesn't ask,they bully.
但是权力贩子不会要求，他们只会欺负。
What I'm protecting is the work I do because it's under constant attack from the Matrix.Anyone can be a Matrix minion,and I've been dealing with it for years.
我所保护的是我的工作，因为它不断受到母体的攻击。任何人都可以成为黑客帝国的走狗，我已经和它打交道好几年了。
Having been forced so many times by my controlling father to comply or else suffer consequences,I sniffed this one out quickly.You do not give in to any form of tirany,except in the case where your physical life is threatened.Then you take the first opportunity to leave.If someone is flaunting their supposed advantage over you,without first asking you to comply without suffering consequences,then you need to deflate their balloon and deny them their advantage.These are bullies.
由于我控制欲很强的父亲多次强迫我服从，否则就要承担后果，我很快就嗅出了这一点。你不会屈服于任何形式的挑战，除非你的物质生命受到威胁。然后你抓住第一个机会离开。如果有人在你面前炫耀他们所谓的优势，而没有首先要求你服从而不承担后果，那么你需要放气他们的气球，否认他们的优势。这些都是恶霸。
If you don't do x,you will not get the benefit of my participation anymore.Sounds like,"Do this,or else!"It's not respectful of another's free will.In this particular case,the bully threw in a comment to the extent that I would suffer a complete failure of my service if I continued on the path that I am.As if he knows.People will say all kinds of things in order to get you to comply with them,even predict your demise,but they're trying to instill fear in you.Don't listen to it.It's another manipulation,one that's used by the media frequently.People who like to forecast your doom aren't your friends,folks.
如果你不做 x，你就不会再从我的参与中获益。听起来像是，"这样做，否则!"这不尊重他人的自由意志。在这个特殊的案例中，那个恶霸给了我一个评论，说如果我继续走我现在的路，我将会遭受服务的彻底失败。好像他知道似的。人们会说各种各样的话来让你服从他们，甚至预测你的死亡，但是他们试图向你灌输恐惧。别听他的。这是另一种操纵手法，一种被媒体频繁使用的手法。那些喜欢预言你的末日的人不是你的朋友，伙计们。
"You'll never get anywhere without my help!"
"没有我的帮助，你哪儿也去不了!"
"I made you and I can break you too!"
"我创造了你，我也可以打败你!"
"You need me,otherwise you're nothing!"
"你需要我，否则你什么都不是!"
"If you don't stop it and do as I say,you'll suffer!"
"如果你不阻止它，照我说的做，你会受苦的!"
People say this kind of stuff all the time.Often it is implied in what they're saying,not stated directly.This is all power over others.Highly manipulative and very controlling.
人们总是说这种话。通常这是隐含在他们所说的，而不是直接陈述。这就是所有凌驾于他人之上的力量。控制欲很强，控制欲很强。
I forgive them.It's their demons that hate me.
我原谅他们，是他们的恶魔恨我。
You have a respectful,mutually beneficial agreement when no threats are used in the agreement and no manipulations of suffering a dire fate are predicted.This puts nobody on the triangle.There are no victims,rescuers or perpetrators.
如果协议中没有使用威胁，也没有预测到遭受可怕命运的操纵，那么你们就达成了一项相互尊重、互利的协议。这样就不会有人站在三角形上。没有受害者，没有救援者，也没有施暴者。
Of course,the bully will always deny they're a bully.They only intimidate whenever they can.And that means whenever you don't call them out and go along with their agenda.When you call them out,they back down.
当然，恶霸总是否认自己是恶霸。他们只是在有机会的时候进行恐吓。这意味着，只要你不叫他们出来，按照他们的计划行事。当你把他们叫出来，他们就退缩了。
Also,watch how they always position themselves above you.You need them,not the other way around.Little emphasis is put on your valuable contribution,only what they can do for you.This is another indication of a power monger,not someone who is relating to you as an equal who values your contribution.This is how the power over others system works.You're told you're the underdog and you need to tow the line or lose the deal.
另外，要注意他们总是把自己摆在你之上。你需要他们，而不是反过来。很少强调你的有价值的贡献，只强调他们能为你做什么。这是另一个权力贩子的标志，而不是那些和你平起平坐，珍视你贡献的人。这就是权力凌驾于其他系统之上的原理。有人告诉你，你是失败者，你必须遵守规则，否则就会失败。
Thank you,Ivo.
谢谢你 Ivo。
Ivo:You are most welcome,my love.
伊沃：不客气，亲爱的。
Me:Then there was the one of the book publisher who offered me a six percent salary for the translation,publishing and distribution of my Ashtar book.Six percent,paid out once a year.He said to check with my guides,they would tell me to take the deal.Ashtar called him a crook.I said no.The deal wasn't even negotiable.It was take it or leave it,so I left it.
我:还有一个图书出版商给了我百分之六的工资，让我翻译、出版和发行我的阿斯塔的书。百分之六，每年支付一次。他说和我的向导商量一下，他们会告诉我接受这笔交易。阿斯塔称他为骗子。我拒绝了。这笔交易根本没有商量余地。要么接受，要么放弃，所以我离开了。
Don't fall for this stuff,folks.You might have less money but you'll have your self respect and that's the only thing you'll take with you when you go.It's better to respect yourself than let yourself be schlepped along in others'control over you.It wouldn't take so much to gain my participation in these types of transactions:the first would be to ask without giving ultimatums and dire predictions,secondly not disguising the true agenda–revealing it so we can negotiate a transaction,the third would be to allow for negotiation and the fourth would be to position me as an equal and to recognize my contribution.Not a lot to ask,really,just common sense.
不要上当，伙计们。你可能没有那么多钱，但是你会有自尊，这是你离开时唯一会带走的东西。与其让别人控制你，不如尊重自己。要让我参与这些类型的交易并不需要太多:第一种是提出要求，但不发出最后通牒和可怕的预测;第二种是不掩饰真实的议程——揭示真实的议程，以便我们能够谈判一项交易;第三种是允许谈判;第四种是让我处于平等地位，并承认我的贡献。要求不多，真的，只是常识而已。
These transactions are disrespectful of the person they're trying to get to cooperate with them.People still use too many of these strong arm tactics to make themselves powerful or rich in some way,but they refuse to take into consideration that there are people who just won't settle for being intimidated or just plain ripped off.The reason you're where you are is because of people like me,and you need to learn to respect them otherwise you won't get their cooperation.
这些交易是对他们试图与之合作的人的不尊重。人们仍然使用过多的这些强硬手段来使自己在某种程度上变得强大或富有，但是他们拒绝考虑到有些人只是不满足于被恐吓或仅仅是被敲诈。你之所以能有今天，是因为有像我这样的人，你需要学会尊重他们，否则你就得不到他们的合作。
I've seen many a minimum wage burger flipper drag their knuckles on the job,too.Too hard to get them to fulfill their job duties when they don't feel the pay really motivates and values them.People are fighting back against oppressive business transactions.It's about time.Watch though,with these minimum wage jobs.There is always the threat,because they are unskilled labour,that they can be replaced unless they do the job.This is where the job market is going:unskilled labour means dime a dozen workers.Be careful about what path you choose in life.
我也见过许多拿最低工资的卖汉堡包的人在工作上费尽周折。当他们感觉不到薪水真正激励和重视他们的时候，就很难让他们履行自己的职责。人们正在反击压迫性的商业交易。是时候了。不过，看看这些最低工资的工作吧。由于他们是没有技能的劳动力，因此总是存在这样的威胁:如果他们不从事这项工作，他们就可能被取代。这就是就业市场的走向:非熟练劳动力意味着一毛钱一打的工人。小心你选择的人生道路。
The problem with asking people means you have to let yourself be powerless even momentarily and a lot of people can't do that.The problem with negotiating a business deal means you have to stop being greedy and overvaluing yourself.The problem with paying proper wages to someone for their work means you have to start valuing people over money.This is the power over others structure.Many find it hard to leave it.I didn't because it worked against me from the start anyway.I was never part of it.
问问别人的问题意味着你必须让自己暂时无能为力，而很多人做不到这一点。商业交易中的问题意味着你必须停止贪婪和高估自己。为某人的工作支付适当的工资的问题意味着你必须开始重视人而不是金钱。这就是凌驾于他人之上的力量。许多人发现很难离开它。我没有，因为它从一开始就对我不利。我从未参与其中。
The power monger always has to hold all the cards.They give as little over to you as they possibly can.This is also indicative of the power over others system.They may try to manipulate in order to increase their hold over you.Don't fall for it.
权力贩子总是掌握着所有的牌。他们尽可能少地给你提供帮助。这也显示了超越其他系统的力量。他们可能会试图操纵你，以增加他们对你的控制。不要上当。
This is what you can learn just from one or two small transactions,folks.You can learn a lot about how this world works and how not to fall victim to it.Hold out for your highest good and good will come to you.
朋友们，这就是你可以从一两个小交易中学到的东西。你可以学到很多关于这个世界如何运作以及如何不成为它的受害者的知识。坚持下去，你的最高利益和最好的东西就会到来。
Ivo,I see you smiling.
伊沃，我看到你在笑。
Ivo:I am,my love.You are the change you want to see on your planet.When doors begin to close for people who use these tactics in their negotiations with others,they may begin to get the message.
伊沃：是的，亲爱的。你就是你想在你的星球上看到的改变。当那些在与他人谈判中使用这些策略的人的大门开始关闭时，他们可能会开始明白这个信息。
Me:I'm not worried about them.But yes,this world needs to change.
我:我不担心他们。但是，是的，这个世界需要改变。
Ivo:Stand up for yourself.Stand up for your rights.Get off the triangle,as we keep telling you.There are no valued positions on the victim triangle.
伊沃：为自己挺身而出。为你的权利挺身而出。离开那个三角形，就像我们一直告诉你的那样。受害者三角形上没有有价值的位置。
You have said it all,my love.I have nothing to add.
你已经说完了，亲爱的，我没有什么要补充的了。
Me:But you were there in the background telling me things.That's why I got the A-ha moments of understanding.
我:但是你当时在后台告诉我一些事情。这就是为什么我得到了哈哈时刻的理解。
Ivo:That is my job,my love.I do it most graciously.
伊沃：那是我的工作，亲爱的。我做得很优雅。
Me:That you do.Thank you for being you,Ivo.
我:是的。谢谢你做你自己，伊沃。
Ivo:Likewise.To make your fight against the Matrix easier is what I live for.I know it is difficult there.
伊沃:我也是。让你对抗母体变得更容易是我活着的目的。我知道这很难。
**Source**Channel:Sharon Stewart
