My dearest brothers and sisters,
This is Tunia speaking. I love you so very much.
我最亲爱的兄弟姐妹们,我是 Tunia 我非常爱你。
More and more Pleiadians are making a habit out of closely checking up on the Earthling collective and really deeply feeling into the energies, not just occasionally but approximately every day.
越来越多的昴宿星人正在养成一种习惯，他们密切关注地球人的集体，并且真正深入地感受到能量，不仅仅是偶尔，而是大约每天。
We’re already working to help liberate you, in all the ways that don’t take away your free will and are not counterproductive. Watching Earthlings has made my own son enlist to become a Pleiadian soldier, which as his mother makes me terribly worried, but I can certainly understand where he is coming from.
我们已经在努力帮助你们解放自己，在所有这些方面不会夺走你们的自由意志，也不会适得其反。看着地球人使我自己的儿子参军成为昴宿星的士兵，作为他的母亲，这让我非常担心，但我当然能够理解他是从哪里来的。
We love you deeply and we hate seeing you in so much pain. And it really doesn’t seem fair that we’re living in so much luxury and happiness up here, while many of our Earthling brothers and sisters are in so much pain down there.
我们深深地爱着你，我们讨厌看到你如此痛苦。我们在这里过着奢侈幸福的生活，而我们的地球兄弟姐妹却在这里承受着巨大的痛苦，这真的很不公平。
And yes, a few Pleiadians feel shame, because our ancestors made certain choices that are part of the reason why Earth is so dark right now. Hakann’s message “history of humanity” discusses that.
是的，一些昴宿星人感到羞耻，因为我们的祖先做出了某些选择，这也是为什么地球现在如此黑暗的部分原因。哈坎的信息“人类历史”讨论了这一点。
Shame is not always a bad emotion. In some cases, it pushes people to fix the mess they made, such as in our case. Similarly, if someone points out that say Tom did something that has a negative impact on someone else, and Tom feels shame, then the one pointing that out is not automatically bad or evil or a guilt tripper. Maybe Tom should work to undo some of the damage that he did. Maybe shame is the emotion that spurs Tom to action and that stops him from repeating his mistake.
羞愧并不总是一种不好的情绪。在某些情况下，它促使人们去修复他们制造的混乱，就像我们的例子一样。同样，如果有人指出汤姆做了对别人有负面影响的事情，而汤姆感到羞愧，那么指出这件事的人不一定就是坏人、邪恶的人或负罪感的人。也许汤姆应该努力弥补他造成的损失。也许羞耻感是激励汤姆采取行动的情绪，也是阻止他重蹈覆辙的原因。
So shame is not always bad. And pointing out that certain actions have negative consequences is not always bad, even if that causes the listener to feel shame. If you feel shame because you did something that hurt someone else, then it can be good to try and change your behavior and possibly apologize to that other person or try to repair some of the damage.
所以羞耻并不总是坏事。指出某些行为会带来负面后果并不总是坏事，即使这会让听众感到羞愧。如果你因为做了伤害别人的事而感到羞愧，那么尝试改变自己的行为，可能向那个人道歉，或者尝试修复一些损害，都是好的。
That said, if your actions did not directly and unfairly hurt anyone, then there is no reason to feel shame. For example, there is no reason to feel shame if you had or want to have lots of casual sex, no matter how much certain people may want to engage in what’s called slut-shaming. I discussed how to not get damaged by casual sex in my message literally titled: “How to not get damaged by casual sex.”
也就是说，如果你的行为没有直接和不公平地伤害任何人，那么就没有理由感到羞耻。例如，如果你有过或者想要有很多随意的性行为，没有理由感到羞耻，不管有多少特定的人可能想要从事所谓的荡妇羞耻。我在我的信息中讨论了如何不被一夜情所伤害，字面上的标题是: “如何不被一夜情所伤害。”
So-called slut-shaming is an example of using shame as a way to control people. Of course, we value free will and we do not approve of trying to control other people.
所谓的荡妇羞辱就是用羞耻感来控制别人的一个例子。当然，我们重视自由意志，我们不赞成试图控制他人。
As we have discussed in Hakann’s aforementioned message “history of humanity”, for millennia your world has been controlled by a group of beings from behind the scenes. These are demons, hostile extraterrestrials and their human minions. There has been a covert war going on between these dark controllers and between benevolent ETs and good-hearted Earthlings. The light side is 100% going to win, although the war is not over yet.
正如我们在哈坎的上述信息“人类历史”中所讨论的，几千年来，你们的世界一直被一群来自幕后的存在所控制。这些是恶魔，敌对的外星人和他们的人类仆从。在这些黑暗控制者之间，在仁慈的外星人和善良的地球人之间，一场秘密的战争正在进行。尽管战争还没有结束，但是光明的一方是100% 的赢家。
A common misconception is that it was regular Earth men that have kept women down for a long time. Women were absolutely kept down, but this was done by the dark controllers and their Earthling minions, not by regular men. It’s not fair to blame or punish average men for this.
一个常见的误解是，是普通的地球男人长期压制女人。女人绝对是被压制的，但这是由黑暗控制者和他们的地球奴仆做的，而不是由普通的男人。为此责怪或惩罚普通人是不公平的。
These dark controllers have weaponized shame as a way to control Earthlings. Furthermore, they literally feed on Earthling’s so-called negative emotions. Making Earthlings feel shame is a way for them to generate food for themselves.
这些黑暗控制者已经将羞耻武器化，作为控制地球人的一种方式。此外，他们确实以地球人所谓的负面情绪为食。让地球人感到羞耻是他们为自己生产食物的一种方式。
An illustration of this is to realize that most Earthlings feel shame at the thought of strangers seeing their naked body. We say this with all our love, and we understand that you have been conditioned into thinking in this way so we do not blame you, but to us this is a form of insanity.
这种情况的一个例证是，大多数地球人对陌生人看到他们赤裸的身体感到羞耻。我们带着我们所有的爱说这些，我们理解你们已经被训练成这样的思考方式，所以我们不会责备你们，但是对我们来说，这是一种精神错乱的形式。
Suppose a cow felt shame any time someone saw its naked body, or whenever it saw another naked cow. Would you not think that there was something mentally wrong with that animal?
假设一头牛每当有人看到它的裸体，或者每当它看到另一头牛的裸体，都会感到羞耻。你不觉得那只动物精神有问题吗？
To us, this is a clear illustration that you did not just evolve in a normal and benign way, but that in fact you have been manipulated by behind-the-scenes forces. After all, it is not natural for beings to feel shame at the thought of its kin seeing its natural form. It is not beneficial or natural for you to develop this form of insanity where you feel shame at the thought of other people seeing your naked body. This was put upon you by other beings.
对我们来说，这是一个明确的例子，说明你们不仅以正常和良性的方式进化，而且事实上你们已经被幕后力量所操纵。毕竟，一想到自己的亲人看到自己的自然形态，人们就感到羞耻是不自然的。当你想到别人看到你赤裸的身体而感到羞耻时，你发展出这种精神错乱的形式对你来说既不利也不自然。这是其他生物给你的。
Similarly, these beings have weaponized shame in many, many more ways to keep you down and divided. They have especially weaponized shame to suppress your sexuality and your relationship with sex. So if you feel shame about sex, then it may be good to realize that this shame is not natural. It was put upon you by beings who wish to control and harm you.
同样地，这些存有已经把羞耻武器化了，用了很多很多方法来压制你们，让你们分裂。他们特别利用羞耻感来压制你的性欲和性关系。因此，如果你对性感到羞耻，那么认识到这种羞耻是不自然的也许是件好事。它是那些想要控制和伤害你们的存在们放在你们身上的。
One reason why sex has been so suppressed is that it can help people get out of their mind and into their body. This is beneficial. It can help people feel loved and appreciated and connected with others, which is also beneficial, and is the opposite of what the dark controllers want.
性被如此压抑的一个原因是它可以帮助人们走出他们的思想进入他们的身体。这是有益的。它可以帮助人们感到被爱、被欣赏和与他人联系，这也是有益的，而且与黑暗控制者想要的正好相反。
Sex is also a way to re-energize you. Some Earthlings think of sex as draining, but you don’t need to have orgasms where the energy explodes outwards, as is conventional on your world. You can also have sex in a way where you continually keep each other under the point of a conventional orgasm and focus on letting the energy circulate inside your body. This can lead to having a full-body orgasm.
性爱也是一种让你重新充满活力的方式。有些地球人认为性爱会让人精疲力尽，但是你不需要在能量向外爆发的地方达到高潮，这在你的世界是很普遍的。你们也可以以这样的方式做爱，你们不断地让对方保持在传统性高潮的状态下，专注于让能量在你的身体内循环。这可以导致全身性高潮。
This form of sex is not better or worse than the normal Earthling form of sex, but it is something that can give you energy and that can rebalance your energy, as opposed to costing you energy. Plus full-body orgasms feel amazing.
这种形式的性爱并不比地球上正常形式的性爱更好或更差，但它可以给你能量，可以重新平衡你的能量，而不是消耗你的能量。而且全身性高潮感觉棒极了。
In fact, sex is possibly the best way that humans have of generating energy, and one of the best ways of connecting to Source. With the proper training, energy generated during sex can be harnessed for all kinds of lightwork, healing, magik, spiritual growth and for making a connection to Source.
事实上，性可能是人类产生能量的最好方式，也是连接源头的最好方式之一。通过适当的训练，性爱过程中产生的能量可以被用于各种光之工作、治疗、魔法、灵性成长以及与源头建立联系。
That is a big part of why the dark controllers have not just shamed you, but even taught you to shame yourself when it comes to sex. They have indoctrinated you to further indoctrinate yourselves.
这就是为什么黑暗控制者不仅让你感到羞耻，而且还教会你在性方面感到羞耻的很大一部分原因。他们给你们灌输思想，进一步给你们自己灌输思想。
In fact, some dark races do not have sexual organs and they are very jealous that humans do have them.
事实上，一些黑暗种族没有性器官，他们非常嫉妒人类有性器官。
Some of your spiritual traditions and sacred texts talk about using sex as a pathway towards spiritual development. You can study them if this appeals to you. Pleiadians often use the following technique if we want to use sex for the purposes of lightwork or magik or healing or connecting to Source:
你们的一些精神传统和神圣的经文谈到使用性作为通向精神发展的途径。如果你喜欢的话，你可以研究一下。昴宿星人经常使用以下技巧，如果我们想要使用性来达到光之作品、魔法、疗愈或连接源头的目的:
Step one: make sure that your rational mind, subconscious mind, body, emotions including emotions of parts of you, and your soul are all aligned towards one intention. Make sure that your ego is integrated and your rational mind is your servant and not your master. You can accomplish this over time by consciously observing everything that arises in you, without judging or repressing it. Also, you can communicate with your soul by just saying or thinking: “my soul, what should I do today?” Only answers that arise directly come from your soul. Your soul will answer in your normal inner voice, but the answer will be from your soul.
第一步: 确保你的理性思维、潜意识思维、身体、情绪，包括你身体各部分的情绪，以及你的灵魂都朝着同一个目标前进。确保你的自我是完整的，你的理性思维是你的仆人，而不是你的主人。随着时间的推移，你可以通过有意识地观察在你身上出现的一切，而不去评判或压抑它来实现这一点。此外，你可以通过说或者想: “我的灵魂，我今天应该做什么?”来与你的灵魂交流只有直接来自你灵魂的答案。你的灵魂会用你正常的内在声音回答，但答案将来自你的灵魂。
Step two: make sure that you have no blocks or limiting beliefs or trauma when it comes to sex, to your own self image or towards your intention. For most Earthlings, accomplishing these first two things will take many years, but on the plus side, these first two points will make your life dramatically better in general. Even just making a bit of progress towards these first two points will likely significantly improve your life. And even if you have only partly accomplished these first two goals, then this kind of sex magik can still be effective.
第二步: 当涉及到性、自我形象或意图时，确保你没有障碍或限制性信念或创伤。对于大多数地球人来说，完成前两件事需要很多年的时间，但是从积极的一面来看，前两件事会让你的生活总体上戏剧性地变得更好。即使只是在前两点上取得一点进步，也可能极大地改善你的生活。即使你只完成了前两个目标的一部分，这种性爱魔术仍然是有效的。
Step three: set your intention, along with your sexual partner and possibly along with other couples who want to use sex to accomplish the same thing.
第三步: 设置你的意图，随着你的性伴侣，可能随着其他夫妇谁想要使用性完成同样的事情。
And step four: have sex while keeping that intention in your mind, especially before and during and right after your climax.
第四步: 在做爱的同时，把这个想法记在脑子里，特别是在高潮之前、之中和之后。
This is an incredibly powerful technique. When we Pleiadians want to send positive energy to Earthlings, we regularly have huge lightworking orgies in which everyone is focused on sending positive energies to Earthlings. We do this not just because we like having orgies, although we do, but also because this is simply a very effective and powerful way to generate energy. Even with just two people, amazing things can be accomplished.
这是一个非常强大的技术。当我们昴宿星人想要向地球人发送正能量时，我们经常会有巨大的光之工作狂欢，其中每个人都专注于向地球人发送正能量。我们这样做不仅仅是因为我们喜欢纵欲，尽管我们确实这样做了，而且因为这是一种非常有效和强大的产生能量的方式。即使只有两个人，惊人的事情也可以完成。
To avoid giving a false impression:: many Pleiadians are in committed relationships. That said, we do not view “being in a committed relationship” vs “having casual sex” as a strict binary choice. A common but not universal relationship structure among our kind is that both partners can only have heterosexual intercourse with each other, but can have homosexual intercourse with anyone they wish. We think this leads to a good mix of stability on one hand, and fun and adventure and new experiences on the other hand.
为了避免给人一个错误的印象: : 许多昴宿星人处于承诺的关系中。也就是说，我们并不认为“处于一段忠诚的关系中”与“随意发生性关系”是一种严格的二元选择。在我们这类人中，一个共同但并非普遍的关系结构是，双方只能彼此进行异性性交，但可以与任何他们希望的人进行同性性交。我们认为这一方面会带来稳定，另一方面会带来乐趣、冒险和新的体验。
Of course, we also want our partner to be genuinely happy and okay. If one Pleiadian wants pure monogamy, then no one would try to force them into this kind of Pleiadian relationship structure. Neither relationship structure is better or worse than the other.
当然，我们也希望我们的伴侣是真正的快乐和好。如果一个昴宿星人想要纯粹的一夫一妻制，那么没有人会试图强迫他们进入这种昴宿星人的关系结构。两者的关系结构都不比对方好或不好。
Of course, not all Pleiadians are bisexual, but many are. Even if a Pleiadian man mostly likes women and is only attracted to a very few men, then it is easy for him to get into contact with one of those very few men.
当然，并非所有昴宿星人都是双性恋，但许多人是。即使一个昴宿星男人大多喜欢女人，只被极少数的男人吸引，那么他也很容易接触到极少数的男人之一。
Hopefully this illustrates that we Pleiadians have very little shame in general, including when it comes to sex. And also that when we want to accomplish great magikal things, one of our primary ways is having an orgy in which everyone directs their energy towards that goal. You may think that having orgies is bad, but other than the alcohol which we don’t drink, why would that be so? Who told you that orgies are bad?
希望这说明我们昴宿星人一般很少感到羞耻，包括在性方面。而且，当我们想要完成伟大的神奇的事情，我们的主要方式之一是有一个狂欢，其中每个人都把他们的精力指向这个目标。你可能认为纵欲是不好的，但是除了我们不喝酒，为什么会这样呢？谁告诉你纵欲是不好的？
From our point of view, everyone is a divine fractal of source. We respond with genuine love and joy and sometimes curiosity to every action that does not directly harm someone else. It does not matter if those are actions we would do ourselves, or if we think those actions are wise.
在我们看来，每个人都是源头的神圣分形。我们对每一个不会直接伤害到别人的行为都会以真诚的爱和喜悦，有时还有好奇心作出回应。无论这些行动是我们自己做的，还是我们认为这些行动是明智的，都没有关系。
Even so-called unwise actions lead to the expansion of Source and can give valuable experience to those who engage in them.
即使是所谓的不明智的行为也会导致源头的扩张，并且可以给那些从事这些行为的人带来宝贵的经验。
Even if someone does something that directly harms another, then we only disapprove of their actions. We never stop loving them, no matter how many other people they harm, for they are a divine fractal of Source.
即使有人做了直接伤害他人的事情，我们也只是不赞成他们的行为。我们永远不会停止爱他们，不管他们伤害了多少人，因为他们是源头的神圣分形。
Note that it is always good to be genuine. If your authentic truth is that right now you do feel shame about your body and about sex, then that is completely fine. We understand that you have been subjected to heavy indoctrination. You are fine just the way you are and we love you unconditionally. You are already good enough. For us you don’t need to pretend to be someone else or become someone else, because we already love you just as you are.
请注意，真诚总是好的。如果你的真实想法是，现在你确实对自己的身体和性感到羞耻，那么这完全没有问题。我们知道你受到了严格的教育。你现在的样子很好，我们无条件地爱你。你已经够好了。对我们来说，你不需要假装成另外一个人，或者变成另外一个人，因为我们已经爱上了你本来的样子。
I hope that the Pleiadian perspective on this topic was helpful. I love you very much.
我希望昴宿星在这个话题上的观点是有帮助的。我非常爱你。
Tunia
杜尼亚
For Era of Light
为了光明时代
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