I was going to let this one thing go but as it turns out there could be a huge lesson on honoring others' free will here from Ivo, so, yet again, I'll tell you what happened today.
我本来打算放弃这件事，但事实证明，从伊沃那里可以学到尊重他人自由意志的重要一课，所以，我再一次告诉你们今天发生了什么。
I keep forgetting… I put up a post today that was talking about people who try to get you to join their religion. They send flyers, they try to talk you into it, and then there are the family members who have all but ignored you for years who suddenly take an interest in you again, and they have a track record of trying to convert you to their religion because they're a minister.
我老是忘记... ... 今天我贴了一个帖子，说的是那些试图让你加入他们宗教的人。他们发传单，试图说服你这么做，然后有些家庭成员几年来几乎忽视了你，突然又对你产生了兴趣，他们有试图让你皈依他们宗教的记录，因为他们是牧师。
I was talking to Ivo, who prompted me to write this last comment:
"This is the Matrix and these are its minions. Any act done to pull someone back into the system of control is NOT A LOVING ACT."
I was thinking this was a bit harsh. But he insisted it wasn't. I was thinking, well, maybe they think they're actually doing you a favor or they're concerned about you. To which he replied, "Did they ask you if you were interested? If not, they're being controlling, not caring, because they are violating your free will." All you have to do is say "no" and they should move on, however people on this planet, bug, badger, or stalk people who they want to control.
我正在和伊沃谈话，他促使我写下最后一条评论: "这是母体，这些是它的奴才。任何把人拉回控制系统的行为都不是充满爱的行为。"我觉得这有点太苛刻了。但他坚持说不是。我在想，嗯，也许他们认为他们实际上是在帮你的忙，或者他们关心你。他回答说: "他们问你有没有兴趣？如果不是，他们就是在控制你，而不是关心你，因为他们侵犯了你的自由意志。"你所要做的就是说"不" ，他们应该继续前进，无论这个星球上的人，虫子，獾，或者跟踪他们想要控制的人。
This is serious stuff because this is just one of the ways in which being controlling is misconstrued for being caring. And that is rampant in our world because we don't follow universal law nor do we honor others' free will. These people are coming from a place of thinking they know what's best for you and you don't. For those who follow me who are in the 12 steps, this is akin to their believing they are your higher power. No, they're not! Let someone be your higher power and you're setting yourself up to feel powerless because your will will always re-assert itself. You will end up in self conflict when it does. You could even have flashbacks to your original abuse. Who needs it? I say.
这是很严肃的事情，因为这只是控制被误解为关心的方式之一。这种现象在我们的世界里很猖獗，因为我们不遵循普遍规律，也不尊重他人的自由意志。这些人认为他们知道什么对你最好，而你不知道。对于那些跟随我的12个步骤的人，这类似于他们相信他们是你的更高的力量。不，他们不是！让别人成为你更高的力量，你会让自己感到无能为力，因为你的意志总是会重新显现自己。当它发生的时候，你最终会陷入自我冲突。你甚至可以回想起你最初的虐待。谁需要它？我说。
Yes, since the summer, the religious people have been becoming concerned about me. Imagine that, a woman living on her own with nobody to speak to all day. She's tired, overweight, walks with a cane, and sleeps many hours a day. So she must have a horrible life, right? Wrong! I've never felt more alive than I have now, doing the work I do, and I have something to look forward to when I get up in the morning rather than going to a job. I look forward to having peace and quiet! That is the gift of my every day life! I LOVE IT! I love doing this, I love learning about metaphysics, esoterics and everything else Ivo, Ashtar and El Morya tell us, and it's only going to get better next year and beyond. Of course these people don't know what I do, and if I told them, they'd really be concerned because mind control would tell them I'm a raving nutcase. Aliens don't exist, and they're certainly not running the planet! If I try to argue evidence is even in the bible, they'd still tell me otherwise. It's all mind control. All of it is.
是的，从夏天开始，信教的人就开始关心我了。想象一下，一个女人独自生活，整天没有人说话。她又累又胖，拄着拐杖走路，一天睡好几个小时。所以她的生活一定很糟糕，对吧？错了！我从来没有像现在这样感到充满活力，做着我现在所做的工作，当我早上起床而不是去工作的时候，我有一些期待。我期待着平静和安宁！这就是我每天生活的礼物！我爱它！我喜欢这样做，我喜欢学习玄学，深奥理论以及伊沃，阿斯塔和 El Morya 告诉我们的其他东西，而且这只会在明年和以后变得更好。当然，这些人不知道我是做什么的，如果我告诉他们，他们会非常担心，因为精神控制会告诉他们我是个胡言乱语的疯子。外星人根本不存在，他们当然也不是这个星球的主宰！如果我试图证明圣经中有证据，他们还是会告诉我不是这样的。这都是精神控制。
It's not worth it to even discuss it.
所有的一切都不值得讨论。
So I let them think what they want about me, but because they think however they want about me, then they have the need to fix me so they won't think the same ideas about me anymore.
所以我让他们想想他们想要我怎么样，但是因为他们想怎么样就怎么样，然后他们需要修复我，这样他们就不会再对我有同样的想法了。
Ivo: Correct, my love. They try to fix you because their thoughts about your life are off the mark. So they try to change your life so that they can feel better. It is completely selfish. This is projection. They see in you the faults they should be correcting within themselves.
伊沃：没错，亲爱的。他们试图修复你，因为他们对你生活的想法是错误的。所以他们试图改变你的生活，这样他们会感觉更好。这完全是自私的。这就是投射。他们在你身上看到了他们自己应该纠正的缺点。
Me: Wow. Yeah, my mother was like that. She'd try to fix me because then she wouldn't have to worry so much. She didn't have to worry at all. It's just that she was so engulfed in fear that she was afraid for me. Every time an IRA bomb went off in London, I had to call her because she was sure that each bomb had my name on it. This is either a manipulation or my mother was a bit paranoid.
我: 哇。是的，我母亲就是这样。她会试着治好我，因为这样她就不用那么担心了。她根本不用担心。只是她被恐惧包围了，她为我感到害怕。每次爱尔兰共和军的炸弹在伦敦爆炸，我都得给她打电话，因为她确信每个炸弹上都有我的名字。这要么是操纵，要么是我母亲有点偏执。
Ivo: Perhaps both, my dear. Paranoid people are manipulative.
伊沃：也许两者都有，亲爱的。偏执狂都是控制狂。
Me: Yeah, it has to do with their glasses. Either they're rose colored or they're dark glasses and people who think I need to be saved from myself, I guess, have dark colored glasses on. I don't think my mother was entirely manipulative, perhaps she did it just because she wanted to know I was okay. I did call her.
我: 是的，和他们的眼镜有关。要么是玫瑰色的，要么是墨镜，我猜，那些认为我需要被拯救的人，戴着墨镜。我不认为我的母亲是完全的控制欲，也许她这样做只是因为她想知道我是好的。我给她打过电话。
Ivo: So you allowed yourself to be manipulated by a woman who was unreasonably fearful that you would die. Very well. That is your choice.
伊沃：所以你任由一个毫无道理地担心你会死的女人操纵你。很好。那是你的选择。
Me: Yes. I tried to tell her that I wasn't going to die over there, but then one time my train did come in just after a bomb went off at Waterloo station, I think. I was five minutes later than the bomb. So that time I was pretty close.
我:
是的。我试图告诉她我不会死在那里，但是有一次我的火车在滑铁卢车站公园的一个炸弹爆炸后进站了，我想。我比炸弹晚了五分钟。所以那次我很接近了。
Ivo: Still, you are here now. And my point is, if you continue to allow yourself to be manipulated, you are not doing them any favors as well.
伊沃: 但是，你现在还在这里。我的观点是，如果你继续允许自己被操纵，你也不会给他们带来任何好处。
Me: True. (I was just reminded that my Vegan mother, Vary, let me come here, but she did because she knew I could handle it.)
我:
没错。(我只是想起了我的素食主义妈妈瓦利，让我来这里，但是她来了，因为她知道我可以应付得来。)
Ivo: It is not your job to change people's feelings about yourself. This is codependent. To behave a particular way so others will not be upset with you is their control over you and your compliance. This is not your job to do this. It is their job to change their feelings. Spending your life in someone else's head is not your jurisdiction. You are all self governing and you need to step into that power. Acquiring mastery over your fears is step one.
伊沃：改变别人对自己的看法不是你的工作。这是相互依赖的。以一种特定的方式行事，这样别人就不会对你感到不安，这是他们对你的控制和你的顺从。这不是你的工作。他们的工作就是改变他们的感受。在别人的脑子里过一辈子不在你的管辖范围内。你们都是自我管理的，你们需要进入那种力量。克服恐惧是第一步。
You must also ask yourself why they are so concerned about you when you are not concerned. There is caring for others but to involve yourself in other people's lives is a bad idea. Why is it a bad idea? Why go around fixing everyone you believe to be broken? Why not have a look at your own life and keep working on yourself instead? This is not selfish; this is what you incarnated to do. If, in fact, somebody asks you for help, then you decide whether you want to help them or not. But first of all, you are all here to improve your own lot in life.
你也必须问问自己，当你不关心的时候，为什么他们如此关心你。有关心他人，但把自己卷入他人的生活是一个坏主意。为什么这是个坏主意？为什么要到处去修理那些你认为坏掉的人呢？为什么不审视一下自己的生活，继续为自己努力呢？这不是自私，这是你化身为人的目的。事实上，如果有人向你寻求帮助，你就要决定是否要帮助他们。但是首先，你们都在这里是为了改善你们自己的命运。
When you raise your own frequency, you automatically help others at a collective level.
当你提高了自己的频率，你就自动地在集体层面上帮助了其他人。
So many people are so concerned about helping others yet they involve themselves in gossip, backstabbing, arguing, bad moods, complaining and the like, but they feel they have something to offer another. Perhaps, but then should you not first work at eliminating this negativity within yourself before you decide you are your brother's helper?
很多人都非常关心帮助别人，但是他们也参与到流言蜚语，背后中伤，争吵，坏心情，抱怨等等中，但是他们觉得他们可以给别人提供一些东西。也许吧，但是在你决定成为你兄弟的帮手之前，难道你不应该先消除自己内心的这种消极情绪吗？
Your people do not understand the reality of life. You are given a life in order to work on yourself. So many skip doing this in favour of meddling in the lives of others, because their ego's tell them that they are superior. Anyone who lives within the Matrix and its limited mindset is prone to being this way.
你们的人民不了解生活的现实。你被赋予生命是为了改变你自己。所以许多人跳过这一步，而是为了干涉别人的生活，因为他们的自我意识告诉他们，他们是优越的。任何生活在矩阵中的人和它有限的思维模式都倾向于这种方式。
Were these people to think for a second, they would find that their negative idea about your life comes from their own negative ideas of life because if they did not believe these ideas to be true, they could not assign them to you. Their impression of you is created from their own negative mindset. If they had a positive mindset, they would perceive you completely differently.
如果这些人稍微思考一下，他们会发现他们对你生活的负面想法来自于他们对生活的负面想法，因为如果他们不相信这些想法是正确的，他们就不能将这些想法赋予你。他们对你的印象是由他们自己的消极心态造成的。如果他们有一个积极的心态，他们会完全不同的看待你。
Me: I know.
我:
我知道。
Ivo: You exercise your right to self governance with an iron hand, my love, and you need to because those with incorrect mindsets see you as flawed. You are all perfect, you were made perfect because you are part of God. How can you be flawed? The fact that you perceive yourselves as flawed is because of your low frequency, and it is raising your frequency that should be the focus of your life. Now, there are those who wish to help others. In a world where food bank donations are solicited, the poor are living on the streets, there are drug and alcohol problems which are rampant, why worry about an older woman who refuses your help? Go somewhere where it is needed. Care for the animals.
伊沃: 亲爱的，你用铁腕手段行使自我管理的权利，你需要这样做，因为那些持有不正确思维的人认为你有缺陷。你们都是完美的，你们都是完美的，因为你们是神的一部分。你怎么会有缺陷呢？事实上，你们认为自己有缺陷是因为你们的低频率，它正在提高你们的频率，这应该是你们生活的焦点。现在，有些人希望帮助别人。在一个需要食物银行捐款的世界里，穷人们流落街头，毒品和酒精问题猖獗，为什么要担心一个拒绝你帮助的老女人呢？去需要它的地方。照顾动物。
Me: If I need my super's help, I call him. And he goes to fix the taps or helps me to install the air conditioner but that's all I need him for.
我: 如果我需要管理员的帮助，我会打电话给他。他去修水龙头或帮我安装空调，但这就是我需要他的全部。
Maybe he had one of those super mothers who refused his help and this is just a loop that he's playing out with me. Who knows?
也许他有一个超级妈妈拒绝了他的帮助，这只是他和我玩的一个循环。谁知道呢?
Ivo: Exactly. And that should clue him in to the fact that you are capable of asking for his help. Yet he still is overbearing and tries to solicit his religion upon you because he determines your way of life to be flawed. The only way he can do this is by seeing it as flawed so his mindset must be corrected.
伊沃：没错。这会让他知道你有能力向他寻求帮助。然而他仍然专横，并试图向你恳求他的宗教，因为他决定你的生活方式是有缺陷的。他能做到这一点的唯一方法，就是认为这是有缺陷的，因此他的心态必须得到纠正。
Yes. I get very tired of dealing with people like this. I know what I'm doing. If I need help, I ask for it. What I find a lot of these people are trying to do is to reintegrate me into society in some way. Well, that's the last thing I want! I'm a societal drop out and in doing that I've found my peace!
是的。我厌倦了和这样的人打交道。我知道我在做什么。如果我需要帮助，我会寻求帮助。我发现很多这样的人正在尝试以某种方式让我重新融入社会。这是我最不想看到的！我是一个社会退出者，在这样做的过程中，我找到了自己的平静！
Ivo: You live in duality, and because of the intense negativity that has prevailed on earth for so long, your people are in danger of being taken off the soul matrix. So many who dance with the Illuminati already have lost their soul connection and have become parasitical in nature, dependent on others to survive. That is not the way of God. They have become evil which when spelled backwards is "live". That is not by coincidence.
伊沃：你们生活在二元性中，因为强烈的消极性已经在地球上盛行了这么长时间，你们的人们正处于被从灵魂矩阵中带走的危险之中。所以许多与光照派共舞的人已经失去了他们的灵魂连接，在自然界变得寄生，依赖他人生存。这不是上帝的方式。他们已经变得邪恶，如果把它倒过来拼写就是"活着"。这并非巧合。
Does this surprise you when so many of you are spending days vampiring energy from more energetic others with better soul connection? There are so many with parasitic attachments who siphon their energy so in turn, these humans become vampiric in nature and siphon energy off of higher energetic humans.
当你们中的许多人花费数天时间从更有活力和更好的灵魂连接的其他人那里吸取能量时，这是否让你感到惊讶？有如此多带有寄生性附属物的人们依次吸取他们的能量，因此，这些人类在自然界中成为吸血鬼，并从更高能量的人类身上吸取能量。
That you are doing this at all should be a warning sign for all of you, but of course, so many do not realize this. Do not allow yourself to cavort with vampires because they will reduce your life energy and possibly provide you with demonic attachments. They still exist upon the planet, try as we may to remove them, they are agile and have good food sources in you. They have threatened to change the entire structure of human life on earth however now this is reduced and will change again after December 21. This will rid your planet of many of these attachments. They will die as they will not be able to stand the new energy level.
你们这样做应该是对你们所有人的一个警告信号，但是当然，很多人没有意识到这一点。不要允许你自己和吸血鬼鬼混，因为他们会减少你的生命能量，并可能给你带来恶魔附体。它们仍然存在于这个星球上，尽管我们可能试图去除它们，它们很灵活，并且在你们体内有良好的食物来源。他们威胁要改变地球上人类生命的整个结构，然而现在这种情况已经减少，并将在12月21日之后再次改变。这将使你们的星球摆脱许多这些连接。他们将会死去，因为他们将无法承受新的能量水平。
Those who attempt to help others who are not requesting help are interfering, attempting to dominate, not cognizant of the true nature of life upon earth, unaware that their attachments are attempting to create greater connection with other earthlings, particularly those of higher light. They see you as decrepit because of their own belief in decrepitude, they see you as lost because of their own belief that a person can be lost. They do not understand the truth of reality, they do not understand who is making them pursue the higher energetic others, they do not understand the meaning of benevolence because they are too arrogant to understand. And they do not understand that all are learning and growing and have internal guidance.
那些试图帮助那些没有请求帮助的人的人是在干涉、试图支配、没有认识到地球上生命的真正本质，没有意识到他们的附属物正试图与其他地球人，特别是那些更高级的光创造更大的联系。他们把你看成是衰老的，因为他们相信衰老，他们把你看成是迷失的，因为他们相信一个人是可以迷失的。他们不理解现实的真相，他们不理解是谁让他们追求精力更旺盛的他人，他们不理解仁慈的含义，因为他们太傲慢而不理解。他们不明白，所有的人都在学习和成长，都有内在的指导。
Me: So you're saying there's all kinds of wrong with what's going on here.
我:
所以你是说这里发生的一切都是错误的。
Ivo: Yes. If you ask for help, it is because you believe you require help. When you understand you create your entire life and you can manifest whatever you want, do you then continue to believe you require help?
伊沃：是的。如果你寻求帮助，那是因为你认为你需要帮助。当你明白你创造了你的整个生活，你可以实现任何你想要的，然后你是否继续相信你需要帮助？
Me: No.
我:
没有。
Ivo: So you know this and are working to manifest the life you want. Anyone attempting to "help" you without understanding you or understanding their own belief in the weakness of humanity which is absurd, is only seeking to dominate and to take you off of your spiritual path.
伊沃：所以你知道这一点，并且正在努力实现你想要的生活。任何人试图"帮助"你，却不理解你，也不理解他们自己对于人性弱点的信仰，这是荒谬的，他们只是在寻求支配你，把你从你的精神道路上带走。
Me: I get it.
我:
我明白了。
Ivo: They believe in the frailty of life, they believe in the negativity of humanity, they do not understand their desire to help is a question of demonic connection, they believe themselves to be so perfect that they cannot see their own life's path and where they, too, need to grow. Do you see what I mean?
伊沃: 他们相信生命的脆弱，相信人性的负面性，他们不明白他们帮助别人的愿望是魔鬼联系的问题，他们相信自己是如此完美，以至于他们看不到自己的人生道路，也看不到自己需要成长的地方。你明白我的意思吗？
Me: I figured you had a bomb to drop. Thanks, Ivo.
我:
我还以为你有炸弹要扔呢。谢谢，伊沃。
Ivo: There is nothing wrong with humanity on earth. It has been given false ideas about life and made to believe in its own weakness. You are not weak. You are part of God. You must all collectively stop believing in your own disempowerment, and start to believe that you are super beings, because you are. With super manifestation abilities. The reason you are incapable of stopping a habit, or an addiction, is because your frequency has not been raised high enough. What keeps your frequency low is a negative belief system.
伊沃：地球上的人类没有任何错误。它被赋予了关于生命的错误观念，并被迫相信自己的弱点。你并不软弱。你是上帝的一部分。你们都必须停止相信你们自己的无能，开始相信你们是超级存在，因为你们就是超级存在。拥有超级显化能力。你无法停止一个习惯或一种瘾的原因，是因为你的频率没有提高到足够高的水平。使你的频率保持低的是一个消极的信念系统。
Me: Yes, that's true. If I overeat, it depends on my frequency and it has to be low for me to do it. Thank you Ivo.
我:
是的，没错。如果我吃得过多，这取决于我的频率，而且必须要低才能做到。谢谢 Ivo。
Ivo: Do not connect with anyone who believes you to be flawed. You are on a path of raising your frequency to higher consciousness. They are not. The fact that they believe in a flawed human bears that out. Humanity on your world has a completely flawed image of itself. Completely flawed, and this has been part of the control agenda as well.
伊沃：不要和那些认为你有缺陷的人交往。你们正在一条提升你们频率到更高意识的道路上。但事实并非如此。他们相信一个有缺陷的人类的事实证明了这一点。你们世界上的人类对自己有一个完全有缺陷的形象。完全有缺陷，这也是控制议程的一部分。
Me: I love you. I'm sure everyone else here loves you too.
我:
我爱你。我相信这里的每个人都爱你。
Ivo: I love you as well. I even love the haters.
伊沃：我也爱你，我甚至爱那些讨厌我的人。
Me: LOL
我: 哈哈
We covered a lot of points here in this discussion. Let's sum them up:
我们在这里讨论了很多要点，让我们总结一下:
1. Anyone who tries to fix you, rescue you without your asking for help is doing so because of the way they perceive you. Instead, they should change their image of you rather than trying to change you. Or change their belief system that makes them see you this flawed way. Often they are saying they care for you to allay their fears. They need to work on them, not on you.
任何试图治愈你，不请求你帮助而拯救你的人，这样做是因为他们对你的看法。相反，他们应该改变他们对你的印象，而不是试图改变你。或者改变他们的信仰系统，让他们以这种有缺陷的方式看待你。他们经常说他们关心你以减轻他们的恐惧。他们需要在这些方面下功夫，而不是在你身上
2. People believe they are weak, frail and powerless. This is the Matrix talking. Humans are on the Godhead, able to manifest as part of God's power. You're not weak; you just believe you are. So change your beliefs.
人们认为他们软弱，虚弱，无能为力。这是《黑客帝国》里的台词。人类是在神性上，能够显化为上帝能力的一部分。你并不软弱，你只是相信自己软弱。所以，改变你的信仰吧
3. Anyone who tries to pull you back into the Matrix because of their negative idea about you is not loving; they are controlling.
任何因为他们对你的负面看法而试图把你拉回母体的人不是爱，而是控制
4. This is often done because of their own demonic attachments trying to keep their food source alive.
这通常是因为他们自己的恶魔附体试图保持他们的食物来源活着
5. Humanity has been threatened with dropping off the soul matrix due to being too evil. Hopefully this is over with now and we haven't lost too many.
由于太邪恶，人类被威胁要丢弃灵魂矩阵。希望这一切都结束了，我们没有失去太多
6. Don't let people help you unless you ask for it. Give them the right to say no as well. They may not be up to it or your higher self may be putting you in for a lesson in self empowerment. Case in point: When I thought I needed help, nobody was there for me. Why? Because I had to do it myself. So forgive people who are never there for you.
不要让别人帮助你，除非你自己要求。也给他们说不的权利。他们可能做不到这一点，或者你的更高自我可能正在给你上一堂关于自我授权的课。举个例子: 当我认为我需要帮助的时候，没有人在我身边。为什么？因为我不得不自己动手。所以，原谅那些从来不在你身边的人吧
7. Nobody is your higher power – you are!
没有人是你更高的力量-你才是
8. You do not have to behave a certain way to help others feel less fearful. Their problem is their fear and that should be dealt with.
你不必以某种特定的方式去帮助别人减少恐惧。他们的问题是他们的恐惧，这应该得到解决
9. Negative thinkers and positive thinkers view the world and you completely differently.
消极思想者和积极思想者对世界和你的看法完全不同
10. Your perception of yourselves as imperfect comes from matrix manipulation.
你们认为自己不完美的观念来自于矩阵操纵
11. What everyone is suffering from is too much Matrix. A Matrix mind sees problems and tries to fix them so it stops suffering. Fixing a problem from the ego is not a fix, only soul can heal.
每个人都在遭受的是太多的黑客帝国。一个矩阵思维看到问题并试图解决它们，这样它就不再受苦。从自我中解决问题不是解决问题，只有灵魂才能治愈
12. There's a big difference between being of higher consciousness and being arrogant. If you don't know what it is, assume you're being arrogant. Our other videos can help. Without knowing one, it's hard to know the other.
有更高的意识和傲慢有很大的区别。如果你不知道它是什么，那就假设你是自大的。我们的其他视频可以提供帮助。不了解其中一个，就很难了解另一个
来源：
https://goldenageofgaia.com/2020/11/29/ivo-of-vega-controlling-not-caring/
